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Baby #2

Yup! Im preggo again., I am 9wks on the way now. Due date is April 5, 2010.. I even teased my husband that he got me pregnant again just as I got slim. I never diet and exercise because I always think that we want to have another baby anyway, and I’ll just wait until I give birth and do the ‘hard work’. But my pre-pregnancy weight came back 6 months after I gave birth to Eryn, without doing anything :) Maybe I just got lucky..

Still the agony of first trimester strikes me even worse this time. My morning sickness is very unpredictable and hits me anytime of the day. Compared to my pregnancy with Eryn, its always 3pm onwards. My tummy got big faster this time. Its only 9wks but my tummy looks like when I was 3 months with Eryn. Well, they always say that you will always look bigger in the 2nd pregnancy. Your body has been to the expansion before and its easier now to expand more.

I just hope and pray that this pregnancy will go on smoothly like my first. After this, we are done! So Done! I told my husband I don’t mind having 5-6 kids but I just don’t want to go through the whole pregnancy process again, specially the first trimester.

Morning sickness, tiredness, nausea, 24-48hrs migraine, very very very sharp sense of smell. All I want to do is lay down in the couch all the time. I also try to avoid the kitchen as much as I can. Its the smell, not that its stinky, but the spices, the smell of food. Garlic, onion, meat Ugh! Can’t stand it!I got sick at any smell. Even the smoke that comes out when cooking rice.

I cant wait till October, 2nd trimester a.k.a. the vacation of pregnancy. Im soo not looking forward to the 3rd trimester, all the sleepless night and backaches. Overall, I just don’t like being pregnant. But when I think of the outcome, another blessing on the way… It gets me through the day…

Tourist/Visitor’s Visa

I had been receiving a lot of inquiries about tourist visa since mama got here in Arizona to help me out with my baby. Basic questions like, how she did it. What documents she prepared and what questions were asked. And I told everybody that applying for tourist visa is a matter of luck. There’s no guarantee wether you have millions of money in the bank, or you owned 5 houses or you have 10 cars.  All of that doesnt matter.

Mama doesnt have money in the bank when she applied for it, but I told if the Immigration Consul will ask you how can pay for all the expenses if you don’t have money in the bank, tell him/her that me and my husbnad invited you here to come in U.S so you can see your grand daughter and that all expense will be paid for, including airline ticket and you also have a place to stay. My husband and I made a letter of invitation although, its not necessary.

We were told by friends that we need to give mama an Affidavit of Support notarized but since does not constitute any ties to the Phil. we didnt do it. AOS, is only required for immigrant visa. Plus, the interviewer is less concerned of how she will support herself during her stay in U.S. but rather show proof that she will return home. So, we didnt waste our time with it.

She prepared all documents that was stated in the Embassy of US website. The most important thing is that you have to prove to the Consul that YOU ARE GOING BACK TO THE PHILIPPINES. Here are some of the list that can prove your ties to the Phil.

EVIDENCE OF TIES

Ties are the aspects of one’s life that bind him or her to his or her place of residence, including family relationships, employment and possessions. In the case of younger applicants, who may not have had an opportunity to establish such ties, interviewing officers may look at educational status, grades, the situation of their parents, and the applicant’s long-range plans and prospects in the Philippines. As each person’s situation is different, there is no set answer as to what constitutes adequate ties.
The interviewing consular officer may request supporting documents during the interview.  Be prepared to present evidence of the applicant’s or the applicant’s parents’ (if the applicant is a minor) ties and financial status in the Philippines such as :

1. Bank statements for the last three (3) months and both current and former bank account passbooks

2. Employment certification including salary, tenure and position

3.  Form W-2

4. Income tax return with Bureau of Internal Revenue (BIR) or bank stamp

5.  Audited financial statement with BIR or bank stamp

6. Pay slips for the last three (3) months

7. Credit card statements for the prior three months

8.  Vehicle registration with official receipt

9. Land titles (no certified copies please)

10. Pictures of family, home or business

11. Wedding photos

12. Marriage certificate printed on the Philippine National Statistics Office security paper, if applicable

13. Birth certificate printed on the Philippine National Statistics Office security paper

14. For students, certificate of school registration

15. Certification of membership to legitimate organization(s)

Due to the large volume of applications processed each day, consular officers may not always look at supporting documents, unless there are points in the application forms or in the interview that need clarification.

INTERVIEW

During the interview, my mama was not asked for any of those documents!! She had a whole bunch of them but the only thing that the Consul was holding is application form. Questions that was asked of her was: Why are you going to US? Who are you going to visit? How long did you intend to stay? Where did you work? How long did you work there? How many children do you have? What does your husband do?

I guess what impressed the Consul most is that mama told him that if he will grant her visa, she is only allowed to visit 3 months because she has to go back to work, and that she working in that company for 32yrs! Also, when the Consul ask what my papa do (job), she told him that papa is retired but before he retired he work in the same company she is working for 39 yrs. That in itself is a convincing factor.

After the interview which only took 5 minutes, she was told that she was approved.  But she didnt know that she was given a 10 yr multiple entry visa until she receive her passport in Davao, one week after her interview.

For all those, who thought that their mom, dad, relatives or friends of even those who thought of applying for tourist, why not try. Who knows the luck is yours to grab.

Here are some helpful websites:
http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwhniv7.html - Overview about Tourist/Visitor’s Visa (B-2)

Non Immigrant Visa Application Procedure

Form DS - 156

Form DS - 157

Eryn’s Baptism

Finally our little girl is a Christian.  Eryn was baptized with Holy water at the St. Andrew the Apostle Catholic Faith Community last February 22 with Roland as godfather and Deb as godmother.  Mama was there to celebrate the special day with us and she is the one who offered Eryn to be baptized.

Some of our Fil-Am couple friends are there also to celebrate it with us in which I really do appreciate their presence.  Most of them are not Catholic but they are there to support us.

We had lunch at one of Tim and I’s favorite restaurant ‘Bucca De Beppo’ and everybody had a fantastic time..

Here are the link to the pictures:

http://www.kodakgallery.com/ShareLanding.action?c=87fqj1v.bu43s8oj&x=0&h=1&y=f622uc&localeid=en_US

Mama in Arizona

Mama has been here for 2wks in Arizona.  What a big relief! Taking care of a newborn requires all your attention 24/7. Literally! Now, with mama given a 10yr multiple entry visa, she was able not only to visit me here in Arizona but was able to see her “imported apo”.

Baby Eryn is growing big everyday and its to be able to share it with mama.  I know that she miss papa and my brothers there back in the Philippines but she is all excited to experience the things that we only talked about in the webcam.

Time flies so fast these days but I hope the next 3 months will be slow.  We are enjoying and taking advantage of every moment..

It’s A Girl!

We had our ultrasound last Aug.21st. Its the detailed ultrasound, human anatomy scan. It took almost an hour. They measure everything, from circumference of the head and abdomen, femur (longest bone of the body), checking internal organs, blood flow of the heart’s 4 chambers and cord and finally they check the gender of our baby.

The chinese calendar prediction chart got it right for us, we have a healthy baby girl! The night before I couldnt go to sleep, I am excited if its a boy or girl at the same time anxious for our baby’ health. I was hoping and praying that our baby has 10 toes and fingers, no broken bones, no deformation in any part of the body.

Me and my husband were both ecstatic knowing that our baby is healthy. At 20 weeks, she weighs 14 ounce. Doctor even told us that she has a very slim chance with Down Syndrome, last June during the first ultrasound it was 1 out of 3,000, then this time it lowered even more 1 out of 6,000.

We went to church right after our ultrasound, lighted a candle and giving thanks for a wonderful result and asking for continuing good result until the due date arrives..

Here are the pics..

From As Time Goes By..
From As Time Goes By..
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From As Time Goes By..
From As Time Goes By..

Caregiver

After four years, megastar Sharon Cuneta comes back to the big screen with the Star Cinema movie, ‘Caregiver‘.

This is no ordinary movie. I can already see just from the trailer that this is a must-see movie. I don’t know of anyone who cannot relate to its subject. Don’t we all know someone who has worked or is working as an overseas Filipino worker (OFW)?

‘Caregiver’ brings to the fore the challenges and triumphs of those legions of our countrymen who give of themselves beyond the call of duty. Watch the full trailer:

Now, watch the whole movie here with English subtitle. 10 mins each part:

Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Part 4
Part 5
Part 6
Part 7
Part 8
Part 9
Part 10
Part 11
Part 12
Part 13
Part 14

When Love Begins

Anne Curtis (left) and Aga Muhlach (right) play two people who are afraid of commitment in the movie When Love Begins. This romantic drama, shot partly in Boracay.

To watch the whole movie for free:
http://www.pinoychannel.tv/watch/v-41480
http://www.pinoychannel.tv/watch/v-41481
http://www.pinoychannel.tv/watch/v-41482

http://www.abs-cbn.com/whenlovebegins/mainPage.html

My friend referred me to this Chinese Gender Calendar Chart to predict the gender of my baby. Most of them says its 90% accurate. I tried it and it says my baby is going to be a girl, but well see in 6wks.

How about you? Find out of this chart is accurate or not and let me know.To use the chart. Find the age of mother and month of the conception.

Countdown

Pregnancy Countdown

1st Ultrasound Picture

Our baby’s first ultrasound pix @ 12 weeks


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